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Now that Christmas is in full swing and shops are full of shoppers searching for gifts. It feels like the shops are closing down for good.  

Why are those aisles and Christmas markets full to the brim and why do people stock up only to through unwanted items away or pass them on?

The hustling and bustling is short lived! But all those decorations and lights are simply spectacular!







The Southbank Centre






A trip with friends to Southbank Christmas market







Christmas Market

What really puzzles me is that there is such a crazy rush to buy items and soon after, the novelty of having them soon wears off. But I guess we can’t all get the time off work for seasonal shopping. For some, those purchases just have to be done at the very last minute!

One of my favourite tips is to buy your gifts before the season has started. Budget permitting. On the other hand I have found myself doing last minute shopping.







A display of coasters 

Shopping on Christmas Eve might not be a great idea either as shops and roads are likely to become chaotic.







Just Stars

Handy tips on how to give a helping hand this Christmas

Shop online if you can. It’s much more convenient and stress free. People always tell me how they prefer to feel and see the product they desire before buying it and how it makes a huge difference buying a product from a shop.  







A Candle stall

Suggest a budget for family members and friends to avoid going overboard.






Underbellys Christmas market Southbank






Sightseeing Christmas lights in London







An Angel flying over Regents street

Give! Give! Give!

Give a helping hand this Christmas.

The season is not all about turkey, Brussels and mulled wine. How about joining a charitable organisation. Make up and give out food or toiletry hampers to the less privilege, like the homeless. You don’t need to invest in baskets. Simply use shoe boxes and fill them up with goodies.

Let’s not forget that for some, Christmas is that time of the year that brings back unpleasant memories. 

Feed orphans or children less privileged.

Volunteer to work with your local church for cold weather shelter, local food bank or a charity like CRISIS

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Visit a neighbour or an elderly person and listen to their stories or share yours.

Drop donations to your local hospital if possible,.

Read more about Christmas here.

Go out to town to see the Christmas lights.

Would you help people this Christmas or prefer to indulge in the festivity? Drop me a line or two as always.

About the Author: Bola

About me and Journeywithbola.com I’m Bola, a London-based travel writer and blogger with over 20 years of writing experience and a background in business and finance, administration, journalism, teaching, and support work across the education and homelessness sectors. I help women over 60 discover the world again, in confidence, friendship and freedom. Since launching my blog in 2013, I’ve been on a mission to inspire and empower women—especially senior women who may feel isolated—to step outside their comfort zones and rediscover the joy of exploration. My work focuses on uncovering hidden historical gems in London and beyond, bringing their stories to life in ways that are engaging, accessible, and meaningful. I believe travel isn’t just about going far—it’s about seeing familiar places with fresh eyes. Over the years, I’ve met many people who have barely explored London despite living here, often held back by routine. That’s where I come in. Through my blog and curated group trips, I help women experience the city (and the world) like curious travellers, not just residents. My trips are designed to be more than just journeys—they’re shared experiences that build confidence, connection, and lasting memories. Whether we’re walking through historic streets or venturing further afield, the goal is always the same: to inspire you to move, explore, and embrace new possibilities. Because I truly believe—we are not meant to stay still. If you’re able to move, in any way, then keep moving. My passion for travel began in childhood, inspired by watching my parents explore the world. That early influence shaped my belief in travel as a powerful tool for well-being, growth, and transformation. The Vision Of Journey With Bola Create a community of mid-luxury travellers. If you would like to book a 15 minute consultation with me, click below.

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4 Comments

  1. Doreen Pendgracs 11/12/2018 at 11:04 pm - Reply

    I agree with you, Bola. Giving of ourselves is a great way to mark Christmas and the festive season. I have friends who are working at a shelter on Christmas day. And I always invite single people to my festive events so that they are not alone unless they choose to be.

    • Bola Akande 16/12/2018 at 6:33 pm - Reply

      Being thoughtful like yourself is what Christmas is about.

  2. Phoenicia Oyeniyi 12/12/2018 at 7:29 pm - Reply

    People have a tendency to overspend on food and gifts. I am not one of them. We do a family secret Santa and buy for the children only. I am relieved at not having to shop around for 20 plus gifts every Christmas.

    I agree Christmas is a time for giving. At church each year we participate in packing and distributing food hampers for 100 people in the borough.

    • Bola Akande 16/12/2018 at 6:32 pm - Reply

      Yours is a good cause. I sometimes see shopping trolleys stacked with food to the brim. I’m sure so much will eventually be thrown away. I did Secret Santa a work and will be buying gifts for children as well.

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